In Moderation

Why do the simplest of questions turn into the most frustrating (and might I add, petty) arguments? Genuine concern is shown and is blown way, way out of proportion. I'm used to it though. This is what happens. With most people really. Yesterday, it happened to me twice. Two different people. Except one reaction was a slap in the face and the other was a slap somewhere else. Meh. Work time.